i promise to...

Lots of people make New Year's resolutions. 

They want to loose weight, make better lifestyle choices, cut something out of their life or add something in. They want to travel more, spend less and pick up a new hobby. People want to spend more time with their family or take more time away from work. I find that they try to change their personality; quit being late, stop procrastinating and be more outgoing. 

This year I have goals, not resolutions. 

1. Try to find that line

ya know the one where being nice changes to getting walked all over.

2. Give Thanks

With a busy life, sometimes it's easy to take the little things for granted. I need to remember to be thankful for the things that sometimes go unnoticed. 

3. Stay Strong

I have the habit of being a people pleaser. But I need to learn that it's OK if not everyone likes you.

4. Let it go

forgive and forget. PERIOD

5. Appreciate

I need to make sure everyone in my life knows how special they are to me. every. single. day.

New Years Resolution Planning

Do you have your New Years Resolution picked out yet? I feel like everyone and their Mom will choose to "get healthy" or "exercise more"... but what do those goals really mean? If you chose to change your lifestyle habits, set more realistic goals for yourself- because sometimes it can get overwhelming.

Instead, try "I will pack a nutritious lunch for myself everyday, so I don't succumb to fast food."

Another one I like is " I will only indulge in dessert when I'm out for dinner on Saturdays." Then you have a sweet treat to look forward to all week.. and hopefully that will keep your motivation up.

Check this article from Shape Magazine, it helps you plan your resolution and keep it.. So you will make sure to have a bright future in 2013!!